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Act III of IV: Time to reinvent yourself

And so it goes in retirement as it does in all of life. It isn’t what you plan. Tennessee Williams said that “success is blocked by concentrating on it and planning for it. Success is shy – it won’t come out while you’re watching.” Would I suggest that you head into retirement without thinking about what it means for you? Absolutely not.

Dig deep and find your passions. Sing. Dance. Work in local politics.

Try new things fearlessly. Ah – maybe this is where I should have put work on a political campaign. Seriously. Fearlessly.

Become an advocate for what you believe in. I coordinated a writing contest for homeless folk last year, a contest which began with writing workshops and ended with a closing ceremony which about 200 people attended. The top 11 writers – who had been homeless and struggling – stood in front of that audience and read their works, words describing their own lives and experiences. Amazing! I just finished a research paper on 21st Century learning, scanning all 10 Canadian provinces and 3 territories to see who was willing to risk moving from a 150 year-old model of education to one that would actually prepare young people for success/happiness in the world of the 21st century.

Become an ambassador for your dreams. Speak up whenever you can about things you think are important.

Take chances. A few weeks ago I was thinking that I’d like to have a dog again and submitted an application for a sweet-looking labradoodle puppy from a dog rescue place, an application that turned down because of my age. How’s that for rejection? Yes, turning 67 is just around the corner but I’m pretty sure that I don’t have one foot in the grave already … at least as sure as I am about anything.

The train is pulling into the station so I’ll say goodbye for now. Kobayashi Issa was an 18th century Japanese poet and Buddhist priest known for his haiku. Seems like a good way to end.

O snail
Climb Mt. Fuji
But slowly, slowly

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Dr. Sylvia Solomon

Sylvia Solomon started working at the age of 12 as a camp counselor and she’s never really stopped working since then. Putting herself through college she did everything from waitressing in a rather sleazy bar to typing dictated notes for physicians. After graduating she started full-time work as a Social Worker; that experience sent her back to school where she became a teacher. Sylvia has taught everything from grade 3 to graduate school, at several school boards and a number of Faculties of Education. As a single Mom raising three children (and now having 5 grandchildren) she often held multiple jobs to make ends meet. Her last 14 years of employment were as an Education Officer with the Ontario Ministry of Education where she had responsibility for everything from coordinating the writing of entirely new high school curriculum to developing policies for Gifted Education and ESL. “I’ve always looked beyond the experience to the meaning. Retirement gives us a chance to give back.” Since retiring Sylvia has been exploring – and living and blogging about this new territory called “retirement”. You’ll find a link to her book about adapting to retirement there as well. (For The First Time: One Woman’s Journey). Get it on Kindle at amazon.com or in paperback at amazon.ca. Check out her website for more information about the work that she does; you might even want to book a workshop. You can contact her via email at drsylviasolomon@gmail.com  

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