After 23 years of living at Lake Chapala in Mexico, I decided to strike out and explore where I might want to live next.
I spent two winters exploring Nicaragua, Costa Rica, Panama and Ecuador. I chose Cuenca, Ecuador. Why Ecuador? Of all the places I researched when thinking about making a change in my life, this is the country that appealed to me the most. I looked forward to the opportunity to live in an urban setting after so many years of living in a small town. Cuenca offers many opportunities to dine out, attend cultural events, take part in expat gatherings and organizations, and explore a small but diverse country on very little money. There are book clubs, a bridge club, a community theater, humane societies, and many more special interest groups if one is interested in joining.
Since the country is about as large as the state of Nevada, it’s possible and affordable to travel and get to know all parts of the nation. The biodiversity is as staggering as the scenery. Some of the greatest natural gems in the world including the Amazon, the Andes, the Galapagos Islands, cloud forests, volcanoes, and more than 600 species of birds can be found in Ecuador. I never lack for interesting options for sightseeing: colonial cities, lakes, ruins, hot springs, waterfalls, national parks, cobblestone streets, town squares, handicrafts, and traditional celebrations. If one is adventurous, there is a whole country to explore as well as the neighboring South American countries.
Of course there are pros and cons to living in any foreign country. Many find that being so far away from family and friends is intolerable. In my case, I find airfare back to the U.S. is costly, as are imported food, and health and beauty items. I am learning to substitute more affordable local products. Weather is a big factor of living in Ecuador. Some may not like the cooler temperatures at higher elevations. We have sunny days but cool nights in Cuenca. The coastal areas on the Pacific Ocean may appeal more to those who don’t like the sound of that.
I feel I have a superior lifestyle here with plenty of exercise (most of us do not own cars) and fresh foods in my diet. It’s rare that a week goes by without an invitation to dinner, a movie, or a party. For me as a single woman, it is not the lonely life that some singles lead. I have met more new friends in the short time I’ve been here than I was meeting the past few years of my time in Mexico. Many very interesting people are visiting Ecuador to see if it might be their retirement destination and many more have already made the decision to relocate here.
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Hola. I lived in lake chapala & guadalajara for years. I will make my visit to cuenca in july & aug. Have a good day.
Thanks for this, Regina. I have been actively internet researching Ecuador, especially Cuenca, and it is great to hear a single woman's viewpoint. Hope to come see the city in person in October.
I have lived in Zihuatanejo for 43 years and it's time for a change. However, I am a bridge player and need a infusion a coupled times a week. Can you tell me what the ridge community is like?
Thank you
It is now 2015 and this all was posted in 2014, what is it like now for a single female. The same?
I visited Quito on my way to the Galapagos islands in July and I simply love the people and all that the country has to offer. It is good to know that single women are welcome and comfortable in Cuenca. I am planning on another trip in November, yoga retreat, before making my final decision to retire permanently in Ecuador by August 2016!
Between Costa Rica, Panama and Ecuador, I choose Ecuador.
Thank you for the insight and great information.
We are in Cuenca for three nights. If there is a duplicate bridge game the next couple days or nights please reply with times and location.
Thanks,
Bob
Bobcalt@gmail.com
I am 57 , single and going to Costa Rica this year for 3 months to see what life is like . I hope to move there permanently in the near future . I'll be staying in Heredia , any good advice ? Thankx !
i am a single 54 yo female in 2016. I have been researching EC for a year and will be coming alone. I wonder if there are any folks in the more southern regions, like Lojas, or even in Northern Peru, who are willing to share their experiences.
I am working on getting my disability pension and improving my high school spanish in the meanwhile. Any suggestions for areas to check out, what to avoid, etc.?
I'm happy to share info with you about expat life in Cuenca. Please write again or Private Message me.
Regina
Hi Regina,
I am a 62 year old female whose 36 year marriage is ending officially in June. Once all is settled and affairs in order I believe that I have decided that Cuenca may be the place I wish to settle. I am now in the Northeast US. I will be alone and just wanted any insight you may have in general and concerning safety for a single woman. I am also looking at Chapala Mexico. Thanks.