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Managing the Family Legacy

Family legends

My next novel is based on the adventures of my great grandmother Nellie Belle Scott. Family legend has it that she divorced her husband and left her children for a career as the first female court reporter in the Pacific Northwest. At a time when most women stayed married and stayed in the kitchen, she traveled the legal circuit and enjoyed the respect of attorneys and judges. Her job was to provide stenographic services in small town courtrooms and newly constructed, big city courthouses.

I had two main sources of material—a sheaf of her short stories I inherited and the stories my family members told, many of them negative. As I researched the sketchy facts of her life I discovered something interesting. Her younger sister Jessie named her daughter Nellie. Obviously, her opinion was not so harsh.

My job as a novelist was to discover what in my great-grandmother’s character inspired such high regard from those who knew her growing up. I now feel I know my great-grandmother, even though she died before I was born. I also understand my family dynamics in a new way.

Story-lines

What legacy will you leave the generations that follow you? You are a link in a generational chain. You are the caretaker of the story trove—memories of mothers and fathers now departed, or young people who left life too soon; perspectives on how we came to be the people we are; documenters of the people, places and things that have formed the culture of our individual tribes.

Timelines record events. Story-lines capture family relationships that fray, possibly to re-thread generations later. The gritty stories we fashion, tell ourselves, and share with each other hold precious truth worth passing down.

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Sydney Avey

Sydney Avey is the author of two historical fiction novels, The Sheep Walker’s Daughter and The Lyre and the Lambs. Her work has appeared in Epiphany, Foliate Oak, Forge, American Athenaeum, Unstrung (published by Blue Guitar Magazine) and Ruminate and MTL Magazine. Sydney earned a degree in English from the University of California, Berkeley and has studied at the Iowa Summer Writing Festival. She writes on topics related to love and mystery, generational conflict, and how faith functions in real life. She, her airplane enthusiast husband, and their former barn cat Clyde divide their time between Sierra Nevada foothills of Yosemite, California, and the Sonoran Desert in Arizona. Sydney enjoys theater, travel, and choral singing. You can find her website at Sydney Avey. You can also reach Sydney via email.

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